Just reflecting on some of my posts and they do seem to be ‘all
over the place’
No neat bullet points with a set progression
Nobody ever responds…I wonder why that really is ? Of course
those who don’t understand will say something ‘stupid’ and those who do , well…maybe
they are too frightened to admit to their feelings? Posting on google is TOO
open and when you are in that bottomless pit, it is too scary to talk about it.
It is, or can be a kind of denial, that you are hurting.
Let’s face it grievers( hope you don’t mind me calling you
that)……….but most people do not understand, and they will often say the most
stupid things to you!
Please please can you share with me some of the craziest things
people have said to you?!
For me it was, “I suppose you get everything you want now”
Erm, how do you respond to that? Well actually I wanted my
loved ones to live!! You bonehead!
Here’s one that might make you laugh a little. I wasn’t
married for long, the dream love of my life, turned out to be a crazy control
freak who threatened me to the point I left for my safety.
Do you know ? ……This equates to a traumatic loss, yet the
most sympathy I ever got was, ‘you should have left him sooner, you’ll be
alright now’
That ! is like saying to a widow, pity he hadn’t died sooner,
you would be over grief by now!
Family were the worst! …………..I got ‘What are you crying for
?’………….Der!
I didn’t know the Universal Laws from Dr Demartini back then,
I know them now and oh boy…it can make such a big difference in your life.
Actually it is more than a big difference it is a quantum difference.
http://amzn.to/1p8i2Pe
You can’t Photoshop grief, you can’t make it fit straight
lines or just be circles. Greif is a flow of emotion that has to be experienced
for what it is!
If my post fluctuate…I’m pretty sure that your loss, has
been experiencing similar?
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