I came into life at the bottom rung - I am now trying to work my way back up! With fun and laughter and an abundance experience and joy, for which I am grateful.
Please don’t ask me why it happened to You – it happened to
me - I was nine! Never knew I asked for
it!
It is Friday!
I am so grateful to be here, in my being with the ability to
talk to you. I feel the awesomeness of that.
Can you feel it too? Can you feel the awesomeness of being
alive?
At times when we go through grief, we can’t always see the
awesomeness and sometimes we can find we have learnt a pattern that repeats.
I describe the pattern in my book http://amzn.to/1p8i2Pe and that pattern can cost you dearly.
In the largest sense it actually costs you the JOY of LIVING
because you spend time wishing on something that is actually a fantasy.
What if - scenarios!
What if - they were here?
What if I could speak to them now? I wouldn’t feel like this
I would be happy, I would be happier!
What we don’t see, is that whilst these feelings appear to
be validating our loss, they actual give rise to more loss!! The Universe
simply reacts to our thoughts.
The message you are giving out is that you want to ponder on
‘woulds’ and ‘coulds’ and in this frame of mind we ARE actually lacking.
We are not in the here and now appreciating the abundance
that is part of our nature and inheritance.
Think about it…if you are suffering grief….how many of your
family and friends are trying to tell you to ‘Get on with life’!
You know what? They are giving you great advice, YET, if you
are anything like me, and I hope you are not!
I think ‘What the hell do you know?
You don’t know this pain of grief’
I wouldn’t wish it on you!
It is painful
It is excruciating!
Don’t you know how grief feels? Don’t you know how it rips
your heart out?!
Don’t you know that you want to die from it! That death is preferable
than life?
Don’t you know that?
Well if you DO! Then shut the f@ck! Up!
Mmmm…you get the picture…that anger is intense
The thoughts and feeling are vivid and strong
And ….before we had the understanding of Lynn Hope Thomas,
we had Elizabeth Kubler Ross and her magnificent support for grief stricken
people.
She was great! She gave the World something they never had before,
an insight into the stages of grief. I am the first to say that when I read her
book, I felt so validated with my grief, it was like drinking honey, I was
grateful.
YET, what have we done? We have listened to her stages and believed
them! Yes we have believed them and not sought to move from outside the box!
Oh oh ! We have not moved!
Nature wants us to move. We move to stay green and survive,
if we stagnate, we die!
I want to see more movement with grief because not every
culture suffers from grief – did you know that?
Do you know that it is learnt and a culture? Yes not all
people around the world grieve upon death of a loved one? In China they employ
a stripper to cheer the family up! Imagine that.
I will talk about that some more another time
For now, “How we think about our loss and grief and what we
say with regard to our feelings is so important in what happens next” ….please
stay tuned in……….
I am grateful for you listening….and want to bring more Joy
to your lives….I want you to be part of my journey because we will have the
greatest joy through what we learnt with our loss.
Thank yourself for your loss –“ I am thankful for my loss, I
am thankful that I gave away my greatest love to discover my greatest love,
there is nothing more powerful than that!”
God Bless You
God Bless those who give their lives
God Bless those who love those who give their lives
Please join me for my next blog..
I love you and want the best for you!
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