Sunday 31 May 2015

Come what MAY!’ –Love from Moulin Rouge






……………………….A beautiful rendition for any lost loved ones.

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Buckets of love and tears from Lynn Hope Thomas  - Author of Breaking Through Loss 

Bring back joy to your life - Death and Universal Laws


A tree will shed it’s fruit, lose a branch, undergo pruning and so it is the same in human life. We lose our children, we lose part of ourselves, family members leave us, and we can experience climate change, lack of water, extreme drought, change of environment.
It’s not what happens that matters, it is how we react and conduct ourselves.
For some cultures a period of mourning is long in duration, for others it is short and for some it is a celebration of life. Not one option suits all.
I now know, the choice I will make, is that of celebration.
Yes grief hurts and is painful, and will always be! Though now having learnt the fastest way to process it, I KNOW that I don’t have to feel the pain in the same way EVER again.
THAT feels great…as I know the other side and I don’t want you to feel it, suffer it unnecessarily.
The principle involved is the following ‘Nothing is ever missing’ only in the human perception.


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Tuesday 26 May 2015

Hugh Grant - We don't die Actually!



What are the benefits of loss?
I can hear you say there aren’t any.         Yes there are!
You think that you are missing your loved one and life is not worth living, you think it sucks!
You might, if you were like me, have felt you wanted to die!
Give up! At least die and go to heaven – you know ………….that place where God hangs out and everything is hunky dory!
What a fantasy that is!
Get real and listen to the truth, why don’t you.
YOU have the rest of your LIFE to LIVE so who does it serve feeling this down, depressed and shit?? 
Well funny, because the answer is …..
IT SERVES YOU!!!  Mmmmmm!
We are so full of our own EGO that we grieve and cry and moan and act like big babies because our loved one has died!
BOOHOO!!
Our loved one has physically passed yet they energetically are still in the universe. Ask yourself the question - if YOU died, would you WANT your loved one TO GRIEVE and cry over you? What purpose does that serve? Well none actually!
Just because you don’t understand how the universe works, you are going to make your life and everyone else’s SAD? If you KNEW that when you die you DON’T DIE actually, what a stupid thing it is for people to get all sad over you.
If you could for one minute get PRESENT you might just find that you can still COMMUNICATE with your loved one. How amazing would that be for you?
Mmmmm…you think it’s not possible? Well actually

‘We don’t die actually’

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Thursday 21 May 2015

Darling Buds of May - No Loss



Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer's lease hath all too short a date;
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimm'd;
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance or nature's changing course untrimm'd;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade,
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st;
Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st:
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

Nothing is ever missing and this beautiful poetry by William Shakespeare pretty much sums up how lovely life , and loved ones are.

‘It takes a beautiful Summer’s Day amongst the darling buds of May to recall my love, ‘my love’ …and my love.’ Lynn Hope Thomas


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Wednesday 6 May 2015

Love and Loss hurts!



“My anger rages out like a lion’s roar!
How dare this happen!
Every part of me is ready to rip down the façade called love!
Love? Love? You call this love?
Go into the darkness…go into the darkness
Naked and bare ….my legs are weak….my feet are cold
Go into the darkness…go into the darkness!
Aren’t you there to love me? Why Why? WHY!
I scream! A cry! …I scream for ice-cream!!
I want sugar not bitter, not sharp, not cold not frozen!
Give me fur, give me comfort give me a connection…something to hold onto
Something to relieve the pain of love”
Lynn Hope Thomas
Author of ‘Breaking Through Loss’

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Saturday 2 May 2015

Grief – Is but a wakeup call to live life to the max!


You DO have a CHOICE on your emotions
The easiest thing to do is to wallow in grief. 
Yes it hurts, yes it can be very painful, yes you feel like dying too…I KNOW how it feels…I know how it catapults you to another plane, and forty years on I am now beginning to pick up the pieces having learnt that I never had to walk the path I did!

Don’t get me wrong, I have no regrets on my life, I do believe that it was destined to be my path, I DO believe that I can provide evidence of how; if grief is left hidden within your heart and mind, and left unexpressed then it can cause repeats, and it can keep coming back until it overwhelms you.

If you are suffering from grief and are hiding away, putting on a brave face then please don’t !
·         Read my book about it as a starter :
·         Start living your life again – get out and do things!

·         Begin talking about your blessings to others