You are Not Alone

Tonight after a long business day, away from home.

I went to a local eatery and used FaceTime to talk with my family. I was met with anger all around me. Yet these angry people were all talking face to face albeit with a person sitting in front of them. 

One angry man said’ I feel sorry you are alone…with no-one to talk to!’ Really?

Actually I was fine talking to those on the end of my iPhone until HE stopped me! He was so smug.

Would he say the same to someone who was grieving?

To all those feeling alone – God Bless You Michael Jackson x

You are not alone

Another day has gone
I'm still all alone
How could this be
You're not here with me
You never said goodbye
Someone tell me why
Did you have to go
And leave my world so cold

Everyday I sit and ask myself
How did love slip away
Something whispers in my ear and says
That you are not alone
I am here with you
Though you're far away
I am here to stay

But you are not alone
I am here with you
Though we're far apart
You're always in my heart
But you are not alone

'Lone, 'lone
Why, 'lone

Just the other night
I thought I heard you cry
Asking me to come
And hold you in my arms
I can hear your prayers
Your burdens I will bear
But first I need your hand
Then forever can begin

Everyday I sit and ask myself
How did love slip away
Something whispers in my ear and says
That you are not alone
I am here with you
Though you're far away
I am here to stay

#Grief #Loss #Alone #Love #

Man's Best Friend - Pet Loss

This week a friend experienced the passing of their beautiful dog Misha. She finally took the trip to ‘Rainbow Bridge’ after fourteen years mutually devoted Dog to Owner.

I must say that he was ‘strong’ about the whole incident. The experience being made harder by the fact that the Vet struggled with the injection and somehow Misha wanted to let her owner know that she wasn’t quite ready to leave him.

I have to admit, I think I took more of the initial sadness on for a Dog I barely knew. Seeing the impact on the owner and knowing what I now know… yet being unable to help without his acceptance was rather difficult.

Some heartfelt tears were shed.

It is only possible to help someone when they seek help, it is only possible to offer a service when people are wanting it. All else is futile.

I struggle with that…..I struggle because I KNOW that ‘Nothing is ever missing’ and once a person is brought into the awareness of that fact, then something like the loss of a Pet, needn’t be so distressing and lonely….in fact one experiences the joy knowing that the Pet is close by.

My friend knows of my work and knows of my own Pet loss experience, however he is in a place of solace, one that I would call 'a hell'  -  too ‘beyond his belief’ to take a little a step out and allow me to balance the perception of loss, something I KNOW I can do. Unless he asks I am unable to assist.

Tonight I revisited some of the traits I loved about my dog, aspects that I had not fully processed. When I did,  I saw the new form of the trait I loved and I laughed, I felt the beauty of my dog’ s love for me.

If you have suffered a loss of a Pet and are struggling I can help. If you want to know more about getting through the loss then please ask me. And do feel free to share your comments on my blog, I will respond as helpfully as I know how.

Appreciative of the training received under Dr J F Demartini and committed to guiding and helping others through change and loss.

Thank You Misha, Thank You John, Thank You Chiko

I AM all that I think

I AM Lynn
I AM beautiful
I AM thoughtful of OTHERS
I AM worthy of respect and I respect others
I AM healthy and I promote health
I AM physically fit and promote fitness
I AM able to attract similar minded people and we SHARE and laugh together
I AM a great friend and I HAVE great friends

Mmmm...tell me about yourself ?

Easter flow

This Easter let time embrace your grief and let the tears flow! If you don't you set yourself up for later griefs - believe me on this one! 

After four decades I am so over IT! My challenge is how do I express what I KNOW so that YOU can be safer , & enjoy life more!

Namaste

My Good Good Friday Miracle

I can imagine knowing and loving someone so much that if they died you would be so relieved and happy to see them again 3 days later, it would be the most amazing miracle.

Christians celebrate Easter. It is one of the most important messages offered to humanity. Whether you believe it or not the Easter ‘story’ is that Jesus was crucified to death and three days later he appeared again to his believers and to his Mother, showing them that there is no true death.

I have written a book which speaks of my own journey believing that I had lost my beloved twin sisters.

http://goo.gl/j8v8gM

Despite being a Christian and knowing that one day I would be reunited with them (in my own death) , I never imagined that I would be guided through a very different path of believing. Nor did I understand how my grief was so deeply buried.

Breaking through loss is a book that takes you through a journey of how loss in your life, can, take you through a very messy ripple, and a chaotic repetition of painful events.

When I hit rock bottom I was fortunate that a friend led me to the most amazing weekend experience of my life, one that woke me up to a scientific magic and which later led me to experience my own miracle and to want to guide others in a similar position to the same experience that moved me.

The TRUTH is that your loved ones never die! They are always around us, and at times will represent themselves in others. Jesus showed us that light and you do not have to be Christian to experience it.

IT IS how the universe works and IT IS scientific.

Show your smile this Easter - if you are grieving the loss of a loved one, Easter is here to remind you that they are not missing, and they are certainly not ‘dead’.

If you recognise that you are repeating losses, then read my book as I give you the benefit from four decades of experience.

You can flick through my book on Amazon http://goo.gl/j8v8gM

I invite you can send me a message if you would like to know more.

Wishing you a peaceful, reflective and Happy Easter with love 

Lynn

#grief #loss #lossandgrief #expectamiracle 

Keep the love alive!

Mother’s Day – Family Sound of Music

Nothing can ever destroy the connection between the spiritual and the physical

Whether you are a Mother who has lost a child or a child who has lost a Mother, whether you are Father who has lost the mother of his children or a Grandfather who has lost his wife, whether you have lost a friend, a sister…a dear loved one, know that the loving nature of all beings continues.

Death cannot destroy that.

Whatever your circumstance…..today is a celebration of the most amazing relationship ever!

You have been fortunate to experience the greatest power of the whole Universe, that of creation!

You were given the joy and pleasure of knowing an amazing being and now they have parted, you can reflect on what you experienced and learnt

Celebrate the connection today by maybe spending time in meditation, or close to nature.

Listen and watch for the signs. When you are present enough you will see, hear, smell, taste or even feel a hint of your loved one.

Maybe listen to music? Today for me, the moment came when I discovered an app on my iPhone - enter the date of birth and then you can play the No1 song at the time of birth.

I listened and shared with my family the music of times gone by of several family members. It brought us close and we enjoyed it.

Let me know what worked for you ? Please share it