I have taken a long
journey through grief. Don’t get me wrong I have had a great life filled with
many happy events, I’ve done more than many.Yet the undercurrent has always
been the grief of losing my twin sisters. I cannot ever forget the days when
their loss happened and the sheer shock of what that meant to me.
Not everyone has this
experience and even if they do, not everyone experiences it like I did. Let’s
face it some people are happy if someone leaves their life! If we hate someone
and we have pain from them, then we are happy they leave!
Difficulty comes when
we ‘love’ them and then we feel a lot of emotional pain. That is what happened
to me. I loved my sisters so much…so very much.
Yet little did I
understand how much my love was a very one-sided experience. In fact I wasn’t
truly loving them for who they were and I wasn’t loving myself for who I was!
Even as I write, I
feel emotional, I recall just how much I perceived I loved them, and that loss
hurt me like a thousand knives!
I will never forget
that feeling and I am very grateful for it.
Since then I have
learnt how to balance out that traumatic emotion and bring to a most
respectable feeling of love and balance.
I can help you do the
same. Yes it is not a straight forward process but is a process and it is
fairly quick.
It is quicker than
most so called therapy – so please do not get bogged down in grief.
I could be that
option for you that allows you to begin living truly to yourself!
I’ve experienced a
lot of loss and now I am comfortable with all that loss. If you would like to
talk to me then please make a connection my connection email is lynn950@gmail.com
