What can I say ?
If it wasn't for you I would not be here! I WILL persevere this challenge of overcoming technology just so I CAN speak to you...I envisage making it plain sailing and loving our chats !
I'm there now! Enjoying the moments of drifting with you and feeling the calm waters.
Mmmmmm..breathe deeply......................breathe deeply for 5 seconds and breathe out for 5 seconds.........does that FEEL good?
Yes - Yes it does!
Well....when you are feeling like no-one else is listening .........................I am listening to you!
I WILL be here for you
I want to HEAR your voice telling me how it is...
NO going away...I am here. x
Lynn smiling now xx
Wednesday 31 July 2013
Thursday 18 July 2013
Real Grief remembered
Yes...I remember all too well how grief is desperately cruel. We had to have our beautiful Pet put down. she was the cutest and dearest little spirit. We loved her very much.
She had little dog syndrome....a vet once declared her as having an anxiety disorder, it was always a problem taking her for a walk. She was very aggressive, I always would say, if she had to pass the RSPCA test, they would put her down, yet in the home she was delicate , very loving and so tactile.
Yes...of the things we loved, there were things we hated too, and being a facilitator of the Demartini Method I know all too well that if I use the technique I can dissolve the grief, yet somehow it seemed a betrayal to my lovely lovely Pet. I am grateful to her for showing me what others must feel like when their grief is fresh!
The Vet who injected her was really kind, she allowed the dog to go sleepy and she put her head down and we cuddled her, she was blissfully quiet, it was one of those moments in your life that you truly appreciate what you have had, not because she was gone but because she was a spirit of unconditional love and she loved us as much as we loved her, and we knew that she would continue to love us, because love never dies.
I felt her with me for a while, in the car, everywhere I turned, she had an annoying habit of following me everywhere and getting under my feet, I missed the annoyance, but then not really because I was annoyed there was no annoyance. Crazy but true. I felt that I could sense her watching me and later when I went to bed, I woke up in the middle of the night, I could feel her underneath the bed - how could that be?
She remained near me for a few days and then she left....she isn't far though I know she is happy and she knows we loved her.
I did use the Demartini Method and I must admit it helped me considerably, I haven't been crying, I have felt love for her and can talk about her without crying.
It just goes to show how conditioned we are to grief! Instead I appreciate my dog for the part she has played in my life and I appreciate her for all parts of her, and I know she was meant to stay for only this short time, and I know just how much she loves me. I feel blessed which is a good place to be after you lose a Pet.
Please contact me if you are having any sadness or grief over your Pets, I can share what might help with you.
She had little dog syndrome....a vet once declared her as having an anxiety disorder, it was always a problem taking her for a walk. She was very aggressive, I always would say, if she had to pass the RSPCA test, they would put her down, yet in the home she was delicate , very loving and so tactile.
Yes...of the things we loved, there were things we hated too, and being a facilitator of the Demartini Method I know all too well that if I use the technique I can dissolve the grief, yet somehow it seemed a betrayal to my lovely lovely Pet. I am grateful to her for showing me what others must feel like when their grief is fresh!
The Vet who injected her was really kind, she allowed the dog to go sleepy and she put her head down and we cuddled her, she was blissfully quiet, it was one of those moments in your life that you truly appreciate what you have had, not because she was gone but because she was a spirit of unconditional love and she loved us as much as we loved her, and we knew that she would continue to love us, because love never dies.
I felt her with me for a while, in the car, everywhere I turned, she had an annoying habit of following me everywhere and getting under my feet, I missed the annoyance, but then not really because I was annoyed there was no annoyance. Crazy but true. I felt that I could sense her watching me and later when I went to bed, I woke up in the middle of the night, I could feel her underneath the bed - how could that be?
She remained near me for a few days and then she left....she isn't far though I know she is happy and she knows we loved her.
I did use the Demartini Method and I must admit it helped me considerably, I haven't been crying, I have felt love for her and can talk about her without crying.
It just goes to show how conditioned we are to grief! Instead I appreciate my dog for the part she has played in my life and I appreciate her for all parts of her, and I know she was meant to stay for only this short time, and I know just how much she loves me. I feel blessed which is a good place to be after you lose a Pet.
Please contact me if you are having any sadness or grief over your Pets, I can share what might help with you.
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